Chapter 383 Be careful when marrying a wife
Chapter 383 Be careful when marrying a wife
How could the emperor not agree to this? He had reaped a lot of benefits from agreeing to the divorce before. He took this opportunity to consolidate a lot of power and win over many officials. Many officials became more respectful and loyal to him than before.
If something like this happens again, the government will be very experienced in handling it. Just like Xiao Heitan said, as long as he stands on the side of public opinion, he is in the right. Whatever he does is right, just do it.
That's true. Let's make a fuss. The bigger the better. Especially for those families with high-ranking officials and great power, the officials hope that they can make a fuss from within. The more dispersed the power, the better. If they are all united, wouldn't they point the finger at him, the official?
It is profitable for him, but I don't know where this little black charcoal got the idea to get involved in these things.
Or did this incident remind her of her past and make her empathize with others, so she wanted to help others?
From the tone of her voice, she wants to allow the people to divide their property freely. She is really energetic and can cause a lot of trouble. But she can make trouble if she wants to, since she is the beneficiary as an official.
Everything that happened in the court was spread by Shen Ruyi at the first opportunity so that everyone knew that a son could sue his father and his mother.
The son and the mother, the son and the father are equal. When something happens, we only look at right and wrong, not whether it is the son or the father. It is just like a prince who breaks the law is guilty of the same crime as a commoner.
If parents commit a crime, they can still be sued by their children. Breaking the law is breaking the law. You cannot escape legal punishment just because you are the father or mother of a child.
Finally, after a roundabout way, we return to the original point: If the father is not kind, the son can be unfilial.
After what happened today, most people instantly accepted this view and felt that it was indeed true.
There is no need to tolerate and give in without limits. What parents say is not necessarily true or right. As children, we should selectively listen to our parents.
If you think it makes sense, just obey it. If you think it is unreasonable, just ignore it. Remember, don't listen to and follow all your parents' words as if they were imperial decrees. That is not filial piety, it is stupidity, brainlessness, and digging your own grave.
And these daughters and sons should learn to sort out some of the things their parents say and do, whether they are right or not, whether they are reasonable or not? Instead of just accommodating and tolerating their parents, thinking that this is filial piety.
Parents, please try to be a decent person and treat your children equally. If you can't do that, that's fine, but don't ask your children who are treated differently to treat themselves in a certain way.
Rights and obligations have always coexisted, rather than existing independently. They are two sides of the same coin, and one side must have the other.
Shen Ruyi also conveyed an idea to her subordinates: men who cannot protect their wives and children should not marry and have children.
It is enough for you to work hard for your family. There is no need to drag other girls into suffering together with you. Others don't owe you anything, and other girls have no grudge against you.
Women who are not able to protect their children should not marry and have children easily. If you can't stand up for yourself and can't even take care of yourself, why do you have children? Do you want them to suffer with you? Or do you think it's too lonely to suffer, so you have to give birth to some children yourself to accompany you in suffering, so that your life can be perfect?
Therefore, you should be cautious when getting married.
Finally, Shen Ruyi directed public opinion to the daily lives of the wives and children of these soldiers. Do they have food to eat? Do they have a house to live in? Are they bullied by their relatives?
It is unacceptable that the main labor force in the family is out fighting to defend the country while his wife and children are left with nothing to eat or wear and are bullied by others.
Shen Ruyi hadn't figured out how to help these military families, so she started a discussion among everyone. The topic was how to help these families so that they could live a decent life, and how to let the soldiers outside fight with peace of mind.
All dynasties have clear policies regarding soldiers, which require preferential treatment, especially in terms of pensions, but few are actually implemented.
Because it involves a large amount of money, not many people will seriously implement it. Some people don't have the financial resources to do so, some people in power don't have the intention to do so, and some people implement it according to the policy, but when it is halfway through, it is intercepted by others. Therefore, many things are caused by the lack of security on both ends.
Even if we put this matter aside, it won't be resolved in a day or two.
As for the people sent by the government to receive the imperial edict, Shen Ruyi specially met them and chatted with them. They were all experienced people who had built grain ships.
After Shen Ruyi integrated these people, she increased the investment and let them work directly, hoping that the big ship she imagined could be built as soon as possible.
Meanwhile, Shen Ruyi sent someone to check Meiyuan. It was very clean inside, so they could rest assured. Because before returning the place, the government had sent people to seal up the tunnels everywhere.
The personnel trained by the young prince have already arrived and are working on the preliminary preparations.
Manager Wang has already brought people to decorate and take care of the entire plum garden in preparation for the opening.
The government has already had someone choose a location for the library, which is not small in size, with more than 20 acres of land directly approved. Yiren took the opportunity to report to Mr. Li that he had already seen the location and terrain on site, and that Mr. Li had already begun designing a plan.
The young prince has been busy recruiting various people in recent days, especially carpenters and bricklayers. The chief builder is still from the Ministry of Construction. He has contacted and prepared materials in advance and is just waiting for the drawings to be in place before starting work.
And in the afternoon of that day, good news finally came from the border. The wave of people who broke into the border was finally eliminated by our soldiers, and the remaining people were driven dozens of miles outside the border by our soldiers in one go.
Currently, the two sides are in a state of truce. The other side has not withdrawn its troops, but it does not dare to attack rashly, and the situation is in a stalemate.
This was great news. The people were overjoyed. "The enemy was driven away, the enemy was driven away, we won the great victory, don't you know?"
"We Dali won, we won, we drove the enemy out."
"These soldiers are great."
After receiving the news, the official was completely relieved. Although this war had always been within his expectations and control, things on the battlefield were always changing rapidly, and no one could guarantee what would happen.
What if something unexpected happens? What if it gets out of control?
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